Curse Of The Love Sweater
I learned it as the "
" but whatever you want to call it, the belief is widespread among knitters: if you try to knit a sweater for a significant other, the relationship will fail before you finish it. Some people think once you're married the curse no longer applies, but I'm (conveniently) not one to tempt fate.
My way around the curse was to seek out the hand-knitted sweater that I
have made for Mr. Responsibly if I wasn't constrained by the curse. That's how he ended up with this pretty Irish fisherman's sweater by a Maura Kennedy. Maura and I, because I like to think I had something to do with making this sweater before it appeared on the shelf at
chose a lovely blue/green wool that matches his eyes but falls a little flat in these pictures:
My plan worked, it definitely makes him feel loved:
Since then I haven't really knit for him. I don't do gloves, and Mr. Responsibly doesn't wear scarves much. Really all he's ever gotten from my needles is one unwearable hat. I just can't quite get it right. Back in 2008 I really wanted to make him the Elizabeth Zimmerman Watch Cap:
Nice job, toknitisdivine.blogspot.com!
After three attempts with the same ball of yarn, I'd made two too small, one with a super girly brim when you folded it (I think I cast on too tightly), and finally, well, this last one:
I gave up. But this December we could not find the box or shelf or drawer where we must have packed away our winter things so Mr. Responsibly has gone hatless. I decided it was time to try again. No more pork chop stitch, we're vegetarians. No more worsted, I was going chunky. No more variegated burnt orange, it was time for a conservative charcoal.
Sometimes I like it, but from the side I'm less sure:
Is it still a little off - too long maybe? Does he just need better glasses frames? Or does my simple little hat just not stand up next to Maura's sweater? I guess the only thing that really matters is, he wears it!